I even heard this,
Stop trying, you never passed…
Words that can make me give up. But I believe to view the other perspective and be open to God’s message.
If you think you are standing firm you had better be careful that you do not fall. Every test that you have experienced is the kind that normally comes to people. But God keeps his promise, and he will not allow you to be tested beyond your power to remain firm; at the time you are put to the test, he will give you the strength to endure it, and so provide you with a way out.
1 Corinthians 10:12-13 GNT
I always see rejection as area to learning. Many years I always cry when felt rejected. That is a lie the spiritual enemy tried to blinded me. God helped me to remove my appetite for that.
Feeling rejected, self-pity is selfishness. For the truth is we seek approval and to be called “in”/belong.
Lets be humbled to come to God.